I’m trying to work out actually what will be the bigger regret… not doing something, or having done something and then getting hurt?
Is trust the most important thing in a relationship and if you have that you can move forward without commitment? Or should you wait for the commitment so you feel more secure before proceeding further?
Is it all just really a big risk and that’s the whole point of life? I mean I only have one life and already have so many regrets. So what if this time instead of worrying about potential pain I take the plunge and just go for it?
I mean I know there is a lot of trust between us, comfort and ease. It all just feels really nice and relaxing, peaceful, almost blissful. But I’m not sure if the other knows what they want…. I don’t think they are one to commit. So should I back down? Or will backing down just become a bigger regret than the regret of getting hurt?
©️BijM01, August 2020
Normal is not real 